1·One of my other clients, Cara, spoke to me a few months ago.
我的另一个客户卡拉，几个月前对我讲述了她的痛苦。
2·With no one at home to back her up, we needed to get Cara to regroup her family and feel in control again.
因为家里没有人支持她，我们需要帮助卡拉重整家庭，重新找回“一切尽在掌握”的感觉。
3·When the children were rude to each other and started to get out of control, instead of telling them off, Cara agreed to ask them if they were respecting their family values.
卡拉表示同意当孩子们彼此变得无礼并开始失控的时候，不去斥责他们，而要去问他们是否遵守了他们的家庭价值观念。
4·Instead of standing at their bedroom door and Shouting over their noise, Cara agreed to stand there and just raise her arm.
卡拉同意在他们房门前只是做一个抬起手臂的动作，用以替代需要盖过他们吵闹声的大声斥责。
5·When they had their top three, Cara would get the children to create a poster to put up in the kitchen where everyone could see them.
只要能达成个子丑寅卯，卡拉就让孩子们做一张海报贴在厨房每个人都可以看到的地方。