1·But there's a difference between everyday griping and stressful frustration, just as there is a clear distinction between a manager with a few flaws and one who is incompetent.
可是日常的抱怨和挫折感之间之间的区别就像一个偶尔犯错的的经理和一个毫不称职的经理之间的差距一样泾渭分明。
2·Before you start griping or whining about something, remind yourself of a very important reality: no one wants to hear it!
在你开始抱怨或发牢骚前，别忘了这样一个重要的事实：没人喜欢听你的牢骚！
3·Sometimes that's just griping, sometimes it's because the programmers have a skewed sense of what's important, but I regret to say that all too often it's valid criticism.
有时候这种说法只是一种抱怨，有时候是因为程序员对于什么是正确的感觉不对，但我很遗憾地说，它们经常是有效的批评。