1·Maybe you have social faults such as snobbishness, talkativeness , using slang, etc. , which drive away your new acquaintances.
也许你在社交方面有些缺点，比如势利、多嘴多舌、爱用俚语等，这样会吓走你的新朋友。
2·The disappointment was not occasioned by the sentiment ordinarily defined as snobbishness, but by old New York's sense of what was due to it when it risked its dignity in foreign lands.
这种失望并非缘于通常称为势利的那种感情，而是出自老纽约的一种意识——当尊严在国外受到威胁时的反应。